Thanksgiving and Will I Art Again?

Posted on November 26, 2020 by Jay Moyes
Happy Fetish Thanksgiving!

From the archives. I can’t believe I did this!

There’s a difference between just loosing someone you love, and loosing someone who is a major part of your support structure. The pandemic has made things even worse. November has dealt major blows to my self-esteem, especially as I find myself struggling for relevancy in the adult business.

Sherry’s loss has left me broken. The most important part of this is to acknowledge it. Friends feel odd that I don’t want to visit. When work goes well, it helps restore some confidence that parts of me are not only functional, but working and needed. The broken can be repaired, but others have to be aware it needs to be fixed and be patient.

I’m debating starting on holiday art. There’s so much that physically needs to be done here, but I am starting to draw bit by bit.

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Sherry, What You Need to Know

Posted on October 26, 2020 by Jay Moyes

Salutations,

If you followed very closely with this site and my YouTube profile, the ups and downs in the relationship with Sherry. We’ve called the relationship many things, but we’d been together since 2003. Over a year ago, in 2019, what her mother and I thought was a stroke, turned out to be a brain tumor about the size of a baseball.

The emergency surgery was a miracle. But, she refused to follow up with radiation or chemotherapy. Worse, I had been told that the tumor did not originate from the head, but instead came from somewhere else. Sherry would deny she had cancer. Anyone who pressed the matter was a fool, myself included.

Rationality will not save us. The reason for her choices, such as fear, manipulation, or insanity, are irrelevant.

We got a year out of it before her health dived south. What started out as a back problem turned into no mobility from the waist down. By September, with paramedics begging her to agree, she had to be taken to the hospital. Sherry was here at home with hospice care when she past away this October.

That pulled a lynch pin, for a crushing amount of change that will occur. PR clients will continue to receive service. Other gigs will have to be put aside.

On a brighter note, this may be a chance for the artwork to continue and even progress. I’m writing this within a week of her passing. DomCon Virtual NOLA is a go for Halloween weekend. My plan is to be there. With greater luck, I’ll have more news from the PR side.

Best wishes always,

Jay

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DomCon NOLA Goes Virtual

Posted on September 28, 2020 by Jay Moyes
A little something out of the archives

A little something out of the archives

Personally,this was a hard summer, and things are still very difficult at home. There’s been very little time for art. But I have good news for you. DomCon New Orleans is going virtual. No sharing an airplane with coughing passengers. No using a bullwhip to socially distance (well, I guess some of us were looking forward to that part).

I put in an appearance in DomCon Virtual Los Angeles and I’ll probably be able to make it for NOLA virtual. If I do, I’ll bring the sketchpad and cook up some new kinky art.

Be seeing you!

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